During my worst timeson the park benchesin the jailsor living withwhores I always had this certaincontentment- I wouldn't call ithappiness-it was more of an innerbalancethat settled forwhatever was occuringand it helped in thefactoriesand when relationshipswent wrongwith thegirls.it helpedthrough thewars and thehangoversthe backalley fightsthehospitals.to awaken in a cheap roomin a strange city andpull up the shade-this was the craziest kind ofcontentmentand to walk across the floorto an old dresser with acracked mirror-see myself, ugly, grinning at it all.what matters most ishow well youwalk through thefire. Charles Bukowski
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In a letter to his fiancée, Billie Holiday wrote that, “the best time of our lives is when we are alone.” When you have no distractions, no responsibilities, and no one else to please but you, you have the perfect opportunity to get yourself together. You can get your thoughts in order and get back on track. In the midst of a relationship where you constantly have your attention divided between two people, it’s hard to get anything done properly. It becomes even harder when you don’t even know what you want anymore.

The point is that when you’re alone, you can finally realize that your happiness is entirely up to you. You can choose to be happy or make someone else happy instead. This type of contentment isn’t sadness or depression…it’s a feeling of being at peace with oneself and the world around you.

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